Words of affirmation,
when your mind
goes blank.
Is your partner's love language words of affirmation — but they don't come easy to you? Do you go quiet when you're stressed, and can't think of what to say?
Tell me what's going on and I'll help you find something specific and real — words that'll actually make them feel loved.
❖What's going on?
Paint the scene. What's happening between you two right now, or what they've been dealing with?
What might they be insecure about — right now?
Your best guess. What's the worry underneath tonight? The thing they might not say out loud.
❖
thinking of something true...
Here are a few things you might say.
Tap whether each one feels true. That helps me understand what actually fits.
The ones that rang true.
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Say the true ones. Tweak the ones that were close. Trust that specificity is what makes it land.